The Mather Mystery: California

My husband’s family had a bit of family lore about their Great Grandfather Charles R. Mather. It was said that he died in a shootout at a brothel in San Francisco. There was an argument over a lady there. Perhaps he had been trying to help her. Perhaps he was an innocent bystander and was shot in the crossfire. Perhaps he was not so innocent and refusing to pay the lady for services rendered. It was a terrible scandal. Of course, this all happened so long ago. It was thought that this was how Grandma Maria Santini Mather became a widow. My husband was told this story when he was around 40 by his Cousin Cheryl. He asked how long she had known this. She said she had heard it when she was little. He asked why she had not told him. Cheryl said that Don was too young to hear such scandalous stories. Don reminded her that he was only one year younger than her. I was curious about this story. Surely it was t...